Fundamental Components of a Wedding Ceremony

A Jewish wedding is built from meaningful rituals that have been passed down for generations, yet it also leaves space for creativity and personal expression. These elements can be shaped to reflect who you are as a couple, making the experience both deeply rooted and uniquely yours. There are also moments before and after the ceremony where personal touches can be woven in. Your celebration may feature some or all of the following components:

Before the Ceremony
1. Signing of the state marriage licence

2. Signing of the Ketubah (Marriage Agreement)
3. Bedekin (Veiling of the Bride)
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Actual Ceremony
1. Chuppah (Wedding Canopy)
2. Circling
3. Erusin (Betrothal)—first part of the ceremony, including the betrothal blessings and presentation of one wedding ring, or an exchange of rings

4. Reading of the Ketubah

5. D'var Torah--a brief talk about a Jewish custom or tradition and how it relates to the couple being married
6. Nessuin (Nuptials)—second part of the ceremony, including the Sheva Berachot (Seven Blessings)

7. Breaking the Glass

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After the Ceremony
1. Yichud (Alone Time Together)
2. Seudat Mitzvah (Festive Meal)